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A Couple Weeks In

The wife and I are a few weeks in to being full-blown parents and I must say it wasn’t exactly as I pictured it in my head. Having my first child was more than just adding a new addition to our family–a lot more. I don’t really know what I pictured, but I’m pretty sure it didn’t include the following: putting 2200 pounds of bricks on the back patio, fixing holes in the wood then sanding and repainting the patio, fixing the stucco on the exterior of our condo, putting in a new kitchen light, putting up a new kitchen fan, moving outlets, fixing outlets, patching holes, re-wiring the TV cable in the walls, buying a new dishwasher and installing it, cleaning and re-grouting the kitchen tile, putting up new shelves in the storage unit, painting a shelf and installing it, cooking, cleaning, laundry, ironing, holding baby, and last but not least, the true joy of being a part of a family that cares enough about you to help you accomplish all of those things.

Since we moved in to our condo in September we have kept a list of things we wanted to fix in our condo, and the list has gotten pretty extensive. But thanks to our families, the list is much, much smaller. Lord willing these things will make our little home a great place for our baby and for us, and we hope this house will be a place that honors the Savior.

Here’s some pics from the past 2 weeks (with captions below each):


Our condo is the bottom left one with the door open, but our neighbors put out streamers and sidewalk chalk that said “Welcome Home Baby Titus”. Super fun.


This was Titus’ first Skype with his uncle Andy and aunt Bonnie. They live in the Seattle area and are planning to come down and visit some time in the summer…can’t wait.


Our old fan and our new one.


The old light in our kitchen and our new one. And not to mention the fact that my dad moved the light switch to a way more convenient place….so helpful.


This was what our patio looked like when we first bought our condo. There were four different types of brick in there, weeds, dirt, etc. It looked terrible. Some friends of ours actually wanted that brick and took it out a few weeks ago for us. I guess one man’s garbage is another man’s treasure.


My bro-in-law Adam bringing in the new brick we bought. Man up.


Adam and my father-in-law Daryl in the “planning stages” as the brick piles up.


More bricks are piling up. Oh, and yes ladies…Adam is single.


A few “test” bricks start going down so the guys can achieve the perfect “herringbone” pattern.


This is the final shot of the finished brick before we painted. Soooooo nice.


This is the new patio! I don’t have pictures of us filling the wood with putty, sanding, and repainting, but that was another couple days of work that went in to the final product. The tree in the corner was from my mom–it’s an orange tree.


This is just for good measure so you can get the full effect. Many thanks to my family for making this happen for us.


This is us on Sunday morning dedicating Titus at church. Pretty cool that the same pastor who officiated our wedding was able to dedicate our first child. Thanks to Adam for taking a few pics for us.


The new mommy on Mother’s Day. Fun.

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Lines and Limits

Sometimes the modern meets the Maker…

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Titus Thomason

It’s been almost a week since he was born, but here’s a few shots of my firstborn. Not much time right now for details, but here’s the gist:
Born: April 24, 2010, 6:41pm
Weight: 8lbs 7oz
Height: 20.5in

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Poppies

Bethany and I went out to the California Poppy Reserve over the weekend and I got a few shots that I think are neat.

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Adam’s Life – Parts 1 & 2

Part 1

Adam’s Life | Part 1 [HD] from Shay on Vimeo.

Part 2

Adam’s Life – Part 2 [HD] from Shay on Vimeo.

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Adam’s Life

Adam’s Life – Teaser from Shay on Vimeo.

A documentary by Shay Thomason.

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Garden in a Bag

Something the wife wanted to start. I’m pretty sure it has a little bit to do with her being 8 months pregnant. We got these little “Garden in a Bag” plants from my work for Christmas, but we’ll see how they grow.

Speaking of being pregnant–here’s a shot that Bethany’s brother Adam got. She doesn’t really let me get candids of her, but apparently brothers are OK? She’s holding Titus’ new “crib ruffle”–that’s only in quotes because I’m not convinced that’s a real thing…maybe I’m in denial.

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Baby Mama

A shot of Bethany I took at the Getty Villa last week in Malibu.

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Writing “Letters” to a Friend


Photo © Shay Thomason, 2009

Over the past few months I’ve begun a correspondence with a friend from college over email that is highly irregular during our times, but something I’ve really enjoyed. What we’re doing may come as a shock to many in our culture, but we’re writing letters to each other. Some looking to judge me are already saying to themselves “oh come on! Letters over email? Lame!” But these “letters”, though delivered electronically, carry more weight to me than any other email I receive. The main reason: they have substance.

I’m not going to sit here and tell you that email is horrible or doesn’t serve a purpose, or whatever–that would be wrong. Quick messages to transfer information will always have it’s place. Twitter, instant messaging, Facebook wall-posts, etc. have their place too. But what I’m finding is that as I’ve forced myself to wait to respond to these letters and really write from my heart, I’m getting a lot back from the experience. That’s the trick. We don’t write every day. In fact, we have actually let weeks go by without responding. It’s been a fun way to keep up with a friend that’s over a thousand miles away, but also show him that I’m willing to take the time and write him. I guess those are probably the key ingredients to building a relationship with someone: time and substance. Without both you’ll probably never see any of your relationships grow.

I think you should try it. All it takes is a commitment from another friend that you may not have regular contact with, but want to continue to build a relationship. Take the time to write them about your normal life. What you’re doing at work, or how you’re involved in your church. Tell them about your spouse or your dog, or your love for cars. But make sure you keep it simple as if you were writing with pen. Don’t over communicate, but summarize when the details don’t really need to be explained. Start each letter with “Dear ______” and end it with “Sincerely,” or another appropriate ending. I think it’ll be a rewarding time for you and I can guarantee that both you and your friend will appreciate each other more through the process.

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Flickr Faves

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If you’re not a Flickr user, you can stop reading this and move on–if you are, stick around.

What you see above is a sampling of the photos that I have personally “fav’d” on Flickr over the years. As an avid photographer and Flickr lover, I actually take my fav’ing too seriously, but this new web application “ffffl*ckr” is pretty ffffreakin’ sweet. It pulls all your favorites in to one location (after you connect your account), and then shows them to you in a very visually appropriate way. As I see my own favorites I feel like I’m inside my head a bit–it’s kind of cool. Not because I’ve got all these amazing photos in my head, but because it tells me what interests me and what sticks out to me. Sometimes they are just funny or cute, but other times I feel like the photos I “fave” have depth and personality that I want in my own photography. I think of these photos as places I need to go in my own work and so I save them. I’m loving it.